男追女，女追男？

难得胖老爷在在周日早归，全家人可以坐下来共用晚饭。胖老爷靓师奶一边吃一边谈，宝贝坐在我们之间静静的。

忽然间，承懿牵起嘴角笑笑问师奶： "Mommy mommy....can you tell me boy chase girl or girl chase boy?"

HUH? 丈八金刚摸不着脑。。。"Sam, what is it? I don't understand."

"Err....I mean it's like the marriage. Boy asks the girl? Or girl asks the boy?"

终于听出个所以然。。。“Oh, I get it now. 你是说男生追女生，还是女生追男生是吗？”

宝贝点点头，期待的眼神。

"Well, we don't call it 'boy chase girl' or 'girl chase boy'. In English, we say "a boy goes after a girl' OR 'a girl goes after a boy'. Understand? Normally boy is the one who takes the action first."

胖爸爸插口咯。。。"Because boys are more brave...but they are some girls who are brave too. They may go after the boys."

宝贝似乎很满意爸爸妈咪的‘答案’，继续吃饭。

妈咪当然是“打蛇随棍上”。。。"So, why did you ask this question? Any girl that you are interested ? Plan to go after her?"

承懿没有回答，只是偷偷笑，还有点腼腆。肯定是心中有鬼。呵呵！

"So, who is she?....In your class?"

还是笑笑没有回答。不要紧，这难不倒妈咪啦。承懿班上的同学名字，妈咪可以80%叫得出来。一个一个慢慢猜。

“AAA?”。。。摇摇头。

“BBB？”。。。摇摇头。

“CCC？”。。。没有摇头，列开嘴笑笑。　BINGO!!!　第三个字就猜中了。厉害的妈咪。呵呵。

胖爸爸也来８了。　“CCC很漂亮吗？”

"Ok la....but she is very brainy."

是的。CCC 是个很聪颖的女孩。妈咪是认识她的妈妈的。

"So...you admire and like her la?"。。。点点头。

"Dad is happy to know this. It's normal that Samson admires a girl. Since she is a brainy one, you have to 进步 also, OK?....but it's too early for you to talk about marriage at this young age. Concentrate on your study. "

"Dad, then when is the time to get married?"

"When you become an adult. You have completed your university. When you are independent. When you can earn your own money. When you know how to take care of your self and take care of your life partner....Am I right, mommy?"

"Yes, Sam. Dad is right. I am sure you want to be like dad, taking good care of the family."

我们的宝贝又是点点头。。。哈哈哈！

孩子，谁追谁都好，对你来说一切还是言之过早。要专心学习，努力求进步，那才是你应该要做的事。