跌到了，爬起来

（这张照片是“借来”的。HK面子书友分享静思语的话语所附上的图画)

我家宝贝最近的书包很重。因为年终考，老师将所有练习簿派回来，让学生在家里温习。书包超重的程度，可以令他下楼梯时失去平衡，在放学时跌到了。

周一傍晚在校门口接宝贝。心水清的妈咪一看，就知道宝贝有事情发生了。一脸”酸酸“的，要哭又不哭的模样。上车了，终于开金口告诉妈咪说他刚刚在楼梯的最后一级，跌到了 （师奶捏了一把冷汗，幸亏是在最后一级，要不就“够力”）。没舍大碍，没有流血，只是膝盖以下有一些擦伤。他生气+ geram + 觉得委屈，因为有一位同班同学取笑他。。。又是“教母”开唛的时刻了。

"In your道德课 ,if there is a boy falls down, you are supposed （A) to laugh at him OR (B) help him picking up his things and 安慰他 ?"
"Of course (B), mommy."
"Exactly. You are right!....So if your friend is type (A), you know that's not good behaviour, why bother about him? .Actually after falling down, you must make sure you are not seriously hurt, that's the most important thing to do."
"Some more he said 恭喜你跌倒, I was upset."
（妈咪心里在暗骂怎么这样没‘kasi”的孩子)
“Oh, I am sorry to know this. This little boy is really rude。这样幸灾乐祸是很不好的...Next time be more careful when you come down from the stairs."
承懿点点头。
"Good. If one of these days, the boy falls in front of you? What will you do? Will you take the revenge and laugh at him?"
"No, mommy. I think I will 扶他起来 and help him pick up the things on the floor."
(唉！我这善良的孩子。。。希望你不会“人善被人欺”就好了。）
"Very good! You are a kind boy. Mommy is happy. 回到家，冲了凉之后，妈咪帮你擦药。"

难得胖老爷早归哦！一家人一起吃晚餐，话题还是围绕在宝贝跌倒一事上。
“Sam, 刚才你跌倒，有同学帮你吗？”
”Yes dad ...ZH and KH helped me."
“See...你跌倒也是一件好事。At least you know who are your real friends now. They helped you.有没有？” 胖老爷可取的正面态度，宝贝似懂非懂地点点头。

爸爸还告诉承懿 “在哪里跌倒，就在那里爬起来”的道理，也不知宝贝听懂了没有。

同时，爸爸要承懿不用理会取笑他的同学，当作是耳边风，没有反应。父亲转授高EQ入门之道，呵呵！宝贝你有收到吗？