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2010年9月2日星期四

赛场花絮一二

宝贝第一次组队参加团体赛,一连3天9场比赛在闹市中的一家酒店function room里举行。经过3天的全程守候兼闲话家常,靓师奶才如梦初醒后知后觉 (pai-sei-la),原来这是一场常年大赛事。大大小小的队伍从四面八方而来,来自槟城霹雳森美兰古晋的队伍都有,不乏外籍参赛者。一共有70支队 伍参赛,每队4人。师奶不知道宝贝的西洋棋教练CM,基于什么原因将他们这一组最大的10岁最小的6岁,平均年龄只有8.7岁的小男孩报在U16(十六岁 以下)的组别里。总之看到这些小不点面对牛高马大的哥哥姐姐对垒时,那种“大巫见小巫”的情景,妈咪在心里就要发笑。

每一场比赛之后下一场比赛之前都会有一些‘自由时间’让参赛者休息。靓师奶在宝贝输了第一场比赛之后,怕他有点饿,就问他要不要吃棒棒形饼干的零食 Rocky Sticks。宝贝说好。一打开包装袋,就对着他的队友们 (教练派了两队 = 8 人)扬扬手中的小包装 : “Who wants some lucky sticks? Please raise your hand.” 然后就和队友们分享他的“好运棒”。dgdd + mgmm看在眼里觉得感动又欣慰。虽然宝贝是独生儿,他会主动分享喔。

一连吃了几场败战的宝贝心里应该是有点丧气的。第二天的比赛期间他从赛场出来朝妈咪一伙人坐着的方向走来,头低低的。靓师奶一看就知道他又输棋了。有位队 友还很不识相地跑过去问宝贝 :”Samson, win or loose?” 一连问了好几次。只见承懿停下脚步很没好气地对队友说 : “As I told you I was being checkmated. Don’t you understand?” 哈哈!妈咪听他如此“婉转”的回答都觉得好笑。曾几何时,我的宝贝会这么厉害遣词用字,不直接说“我输了”,而是说“我被将了”。

还是第二天的下午,在赢了一场之后宝贝又输了。妈咪连忙安慰他说没关系啦,尽了力就好。他点点头。然后他说 :”Mommy. I think I moved too fast. I was too focus on attacking. My defend became weak.” 是的。因为求胜心切而使棋局防卫失守。至少宝贝自己会反省,知道被打败的原因。这场赛事未尝不是一个好教训。呵呵!

最令宝贝津津乐道的莫过于第3场比赛。那个大哥哥以迅雷不及掩耳的速度在15步棋内就“搞定”宝贝。承懿甘拜下风,对大哥哥的棋艺深深钦佩呢!还 有另一场比赛,那个大哥哥每一步棋都思索甚久才下,一盘棋和承懿对垒了将近40分钟。那是宝贝9场赛事里历时最久的一役。虽然承懿最后还是被打败了,但在 他眼中这场比赛“最好玩”+“最有趣味” 哩!而最后一场比赛,宝贝先是处于下风,据胖老爷说宝贝的两“只“马”已被斩了,只剩下两只“车”一个“士”和几只“小兵”在保护“国王+皇后”。出乎意 料的承懿仍然可以沉着应对,最后反败为胜。为他的3天赛事来个完美小句号。胖老爷对他爱儿的 “never give up”精神大大赞赏呢!

宝贝的事儿说完了,得说说一些题外话。有些参赛者在输了棋之后仍然可以谈笑自若,完全没当一回事。这种胸襟实在是每位参赛者的模范 (尤其是我们家宝贝啦)。但是有一些父母老师教练在赛事进行期间,在旁观赛;当中就有一些害群之马,因为“爱儿心切”地在旁给予指示明示暗示,而让主办当局有好几次通过麦克风大声警告。呵呵!到底是徒弟孩子在比赛,还是老师父母在竞技呢?公平一点嘛!最让师奶愤愤不平的是目睹一位爸爸在近厕所门口教训输了棋的儿子。那孩子个子小小,应该不会超过10岁。”You did not think properly! I told you not to move until you are very sure of your step!...” 可怜的孩子被他爸爸骂得头都抬不起来。我的天啊!只是输棋而已嘛。有什么大不了?这个爸爸你这样厉害的话,你自己参赛啦!参加比赛就一定要赢吗?哪门子的道理?这样的价值观很要不得。会害惨你的孩子啦。

对师奶来说,胜负都好,皆可成为正面教材。胜了固然好,可以激励士气,继续努力,练好棋艺。败了也没关系,可以承认失败,接受自己技不如人,那是一种很好的锻炼。从失败累积经验,再接再厉不放弃,不是很好吗?还是那句老话 : TRY YOUR BEST!!!

承懿是做到了。妈咪爸爸都开心。我的孩子在3天的比赛里学到了一些道理,就够啦!YES!!!

4 条评论:

莎莎妈咪 sab 说...

面子书留言:

Aw Sin Lay wow..3 days competition and annual event..Samson must be super good lah..congrats!! i take back my words...can't ask my CY to play with your CY...your Samson will be too bored to play with my CY lah :p
01 September at 19:34

Sabrina Woong CW ‎@ SL~ please...samson is not that good, still learning :) took part to gain experience and for exposure :) MUST let both CY play. perhaps yr CY is 棋高一着 :) anyway 互相学习最重要 :)
01 September at 20:38

Aileen Goh I hope I will get to meet Sam one day, and he can teach me how to play chess. This Aunty is very slow....
02 September at 09:12

Sabrina Woong CW ‎@ Aileen ~ another supportive aunty. THANKS. make sure u let us know when u balik kampung next time.hehe :P
02 September at 21:22

Samson Lai heeeehehehhe,,,,,great leh........
05 September at 20:45

jo 说...

Smart boy! Could realise his own mistake and learned from it. That's better than anything liao. :) Whether one is doing good or just so-so in a competition (in fact, in everything!), "never give up" is very very important. Glad to know that lil Sam shared his "luck" with his teammates on the first day. The way he answer his teammate about the results really made me laugh. :D

莎莎妈咪 sab 说...

jo...wah. so supportive lah this E-ma. yr nephew's No-1 die-hard-fan? :P

jo 说...

Err.... no lar. Actually i am the number-3 nya, hahaha!

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