"BUT I have no mood to eat!"
这一句话从我宝贝儿子的嘴巴里吐出来的。
够力！！！唉！
教导无方啊！
靓师奶该怎么办？
尽心尽力绞尽脑汁软硬兼施的教导
昨天黄昏竟然换来一句这样的话语
顶心顶肺
幸亏靓师奶没有血压高
要不准会当场昏倒在地
没关系你不吃就不吃
妈咪照样和婆婆公公在餐桌上吃晚饭
有本事你就一个晚上都不吃
妈咪是不会手软心疼的咯
就因为你一直一直玩
玩到“疯了”
平日应该做的活动都没有自动自发全心全意地做
就连那几道数学题你也没有专心在回答
有一点点难就放弃就要求救
这一点都不像你啊
你的心在哪里呢?
妈咪恫言要把 ｐｓｐ ＋ ｗｉｉ 丢进垃圾桶
你就泪眼涟涟
真的那么重要吗
因为疼爱因为宠爱买了给你
变成是在害你吗
妈咪的内心真的是很矛盾
是不是做了错误的决定
妈咪的原意是要你既可以娱乐又可以学习
还有学会自律学会计划
为什么都看不到呢
你还不到10岁就敢敢告诉妈咪 "I have no mood to eat"
妈咪自问活了４０岁都从未向婆婆说过类似的话
是妈咪追不上时代吗
我们开始有“代沟”了？
妈咪有一点点灰心了，真的。
你自己独自在饭桌吃晚餐时是婆婆为你在张罗
妈咪一声不响上楼去了
心里很气馁很伤心很灰心
还是开了吹头发的风筒
对着你的小被单在吹
一个下午的雨令你的小被单没能及时干
风筒吹出来的热气和妈咪心里的冷
形成强烈的对比
孩子，你明白了多少？。。。
3 条评论:
Aiyoh! Why took it so seriously and suffered yourself quietly...?
Actually hoh, we are the ones in conflict lar. We want the kids be able to think/act independantly and not just follow blindly; and yet we are upset when the kids tell us how they feel and what they want/dont want.
Ok, Sam could be at the wrong this time, for not managing his time properly. When he said he didnt have the mood to eat, fine, just let him be! But if he wanted to makan later, then he had to settle it by reheating the leftover / having some cereal & biscuits instead. Whatever it is, he has to solve it by himself. You just dont chip in. Perhaps then he may learn a lesson or two.
很矛盾hor.我也时常面对这种问题.不知道怎么办才最perfect.
jo...i understand what u said la. i just let him to deal with his own dinner (only thing yr ma can not tahan and helped him bit, I guess)...anyway, i have another story which yet to put in my blog...BIG challenge to deal with kids nowadays...very different from our time.
KDW...有时候是很矛盾的。路还是要走。我们一起学习。 :)
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