“是咯,妈咪。 This evening I can play basketball. Hehe.”
“你昨晚叫爸爸 pump 多少粒球?”
“One only. The basketball.”
“I know. But how many had he pumped for you?”
“3, mommy.”
“You asked him to pump 1, he pumped 3. 2 extra for you. Do you feel happy?”
“Of course, mommy.”
“Well, dad pumped the other 2 without you asking him to do that. WHY? Because he wants to make you happy. He loves you.”
“Ya…..I know…..” (很小声)
“Sam, you feel happy when dad did extra thing for you, right? Have you ever thought about this…..whenever mommy asked you to finish some homework (不是学校的功课,是 妈咪给他做的), you will never ever do extra. Not only that. You don’t even finished what you are asked to do. Most of the time, you will 讨价还价with mommy. Then you will start complaining, ‘my hand is tired la…’, ‘I am sleepy la…’, 手酸啦。。。 all sorts of excuses you will give me. 有吗?”
“………” (静静地低头,不敢回答)
“You feel happy when dad did what you had asked him to do. You feel even much happier when dad did extra for you…..So, how about mommy? Normally you don’t complete the homework given by me, will mommy feel happy or not?”
“No………” (很小声)
“You are a big boy now. You know what is right and what is wrong. You please think again what mommy had talked to you…OK?’’
我发现啊,你和我KAILUI的妈咪一样。哈。她两个星期前和我分享了类似的对话。放心啦,妈咪们。他们都是很乖的小孩,一定可以明白你们的苦心的哟。。
回复删除Ya lor, ya lor! God Mother! Hahaha!
回复删除佩芳,我想他们都会明白,只是迟或早。唉!我是怕Samson到他妈咪我骨头打鼓时还似懂非懂,就呜呼哀哉 :P
回复删除jo, hello. u are not much better u know....cos u are God Mother punya sister. wahaha :P